Why contempt is the worst of the four horsemen
Dealing with contempt four horsemen style can honestly feel like you're watching your relationship crumble in slow motion. If you've ever spent time looking into why some couples make it and others don't, you've probably come across the work of Dr. John Gottman. He's the guy who can basically predict with over 90% accuracy whether a couple will stay together just by watching them argue for a few minutes. He identified four specific communication styles that spell disaster, and he famously called them the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse." ...